Have you given your child a STAR for good behavior today? We use TIME OUT, now lets also use TIME IN. For years I have given my kids GOLD STARS for good behavior. Even my nieces and nephews wanted to earn the most of Aunty Renee's Gold Stars for the weekend. Now with STAR STASH portable Reward System I can give them stars that are more concrete. And these stars may be turned in for treats or activities. SPECS: includes- 20x One star coins, and 10x Ten Star Coins, clear plastic carry wallet with toggle strap, and drawstring bag for ease of packing away. BEBEFITS: Positively reinforces good behavious, Encourages responsibility while building self esteem, teaches counting basics, portable- and easy to pack away in carry bag provided. Star Stash Guidelines To begin using the STAR STASH system: Introduce the STAR STASH to child and explain how it works. Complete and sign STAR CONTRACT. (Make copies before completing) EXAMPLES for STAR CONTRACT: STARS can be earned by: Completing homework Chores (cleaning room, brushing teeth, making bed) Potty training Using good manners Changing sleeping habits (sleeping in own bed) Good grades Advancement in activities (karate belt advancement, home run or goal, poetry award) Eating new foods STARS can be traded for: Movie rental Playdate Pizza night Trip to the zoo New book Money Dessert Discussed the SYSTEM and together read through each potential earning and redemption. Make sure that the child clearly understands how it works. Sign and begin. Welcome to the world of PORTABLE PARENTING! STARS should be given immediately after good behavior is displayed, therefore make sure to keep the Star Stash Tote with you at all times. Also, reward opportunities can be spontaneously added when a needed. When child displays good behavior, you can then allow for them to trade stars (ex. When shopping, if child shows good behavior during the shopping trip, then they can redeem their stars. Make sure to explain the rules before you enter the store.) STARS can be taken away for not following rules or using bad language. TIME IN is when giving child positive attention and rewards for appropriate behavior. The Star Stash portable rewards system teaches children by reinforcing good behavior with positive attention and immediate rewards anywhere anytime (i.e. manners, respect, potty, chores, introducing foods, excel in sports or school). If a child does not live in an environment that includes time-in, the child feels neglected with out positive attention. Time-in is a necessary element when using time-out. They go hand in hand and create the healthy balance for a strong and loving relationship. HAPPY PARENTING!